We all make mistakes, but it is crucial not to forget that we are not the mistake. To err is not wrong . We need to know how to ask for forgiveness and learn to forgive us. In smart and conscientious people, error is not a bad thing; on the contrary, it should generate a positive reaction, make you think that you have to change. And change is fundamental to growth – a constant goal in the life of any intelligent person. CONTINUE READING “Errors, changes and growth” »

Patience and tolerance are, to me, very different things from each other.

Patience I think is faster , more earthly . It is that respite that we must have in order not to break everything by impulse. And to be patient you have to accept the facts. There are things that can not be different and it is no use to be impatient with them. Like traffic, for example. It’s one car after another, you can not get over it, you need to stay calm and expect to walk. So practice patience: listen to music, watch the city, people on the side, think about life. Do anything but get irritated, because the irritation will not make the front car ride. CONTINUE READING “Patience and tolerance” »

The word worry already says: you pre-occupy a space that was empty. You go there and fill that space with something that has not happened yet. Before the event you already occupy with it. So it ends up causing an internal event, which is neither good nor healthy. After all you will get headache dealing with a problem that can happen if you pre-occupy. CONTINUE READING “Concerns” »