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We are born and die every day, but we forget to celebrate our birth. At least once a year we should be forced to celebrate our birth. To be born is not a party to win gifts but a party to incorporate the love of our daily achievements.
Some doctors advocate the idea of emotional memory. Emotional memory is that fact that turn and move comes in the minds of people. Remember that terrible quarrel you had fifteen years ago with your husband?Yeah, it’s easier to remember the feeling of the fight than to remember where we parked the car minutes ago.The response of this memory lies in the cerebellar amygdala, a small region of the brain, located at the center of the limbic system responsible for processing emotional information from each of us.
When this key part of our brain detects emotion, it activates several areas of the brain that form memory. As we already know of the existence of this mechanism, I think it may be a good idea to make our anniversary an archive of joys and every time we need memory, we ask for emotional memory and we laugh with joy.
Celebrating the birthday is a gift for our friends. They come full of joy, willing to share the time we spend away, exchange ideas, tell news. Celebrating can be the key to unity and after all, emotionally charged facts tend to be remembered for much longer and with far more precision than emotionally neutral facts.
To make a feast of emotion, we can not forget the five levels of communication – the first is that basic. Hi how are you? In fact, we are only educated. The second is the one you see all the time. Someone talking about you or hearing about someone. Usually it turns into gossip. The third, the path to maturity, is the one we talk about in the world, religions, things that matter to life, but we still do not express ourselves as friends. The fourth level is the one we are close to the truth. We talk about our faults, we cry our hurts, we really show who we are without a mask. And finally the last level. The deepest of all is listening and receiving. We have received the love of our friends when we have listened to them with the deepest yearnings and thus we have marked the birthday party with the breath of harmony and solidarity.
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