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Marriage means marriage, right? So why set as many rules for marriage as society does? Why is a marriage that works out just the one that lasts thirty, forty years, forever? Or the one who makes a family? Or only when the two people live in the same house?
Marriage is when two people come together, anyway, the way they choose and how happy they are. It is to accept the other as he is: living in his house, living in his, living the two together in a third house, or dating his whole life … Is not it?
And union is also trust. Trust is the only possible link to perpetuate a relationship. It is in trust that the bonds of union, harmony and serenity are established. Because without trust you do not allow the other to seek alternatives in life, for fear of losing it. And true unions do not imprison, on the contrary, liberate.
Marriage, therefore, is unity and trust. But how two people make it happen in practice is their problem. A healthy relationship is one in which both encourage in the other the search for broader social and spiritual horizons, new friendships, new paths, and never feel threatened by them. The rest is society’s imposition.
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